Building something that can hold you too

Messy Middle MondaysMay 18, 2026 It's Messy Middle Mondays! You ever notice how beautiful someone's advice sounds… until you actually try to apply it to real life? “Sit in your feelings.”“Do it scared.” As a Virgo with an aggressively cerebral brain, those phrases never fully landed for me unless someone could explain what they actually meant in practice. During Covid, I remember asking my therapist to literally break down the steps of “sitting in your feelings” because I wanted to understand...